Q: Help, I am single and pregnant with a married man’s baby?
A: In your situation I think what is best is to be with him too, and you and his current wife will be in a three way relationship with him, I am not positive that just having welfare is a good idea, this kid in you needs a father and preferably his real father. Another man involved will complicate it further. I think in the long time past, a man was responsible for whoever he made pregnant and he must be father to all children. That is one reason for why polygamy happened a lot. It wasn’t necessarily because men were sleazy. You probably are traditional though and won’t like it but that is ok. Many women secretly hate other women anyways but i think they shouldn’t and learn to love each other. This does not mean become bisexual of course not, his current woman would be like a sister to you. More people helping raise the children though is better than none. So you being a single mom trying to find a man to help raise your child is not a great idea for the child to be.
The courts around the world are run by satan and ungodly people. In the bible, you can see that the courts of Ancient Israel were run by Godly people and it was very common that when a man fathered more than one child from more than one woman, the women would move in with the man and he would help raise all his children. So I see no reason not to have this happen today. And therefore that is why I think that you should believe God will agree with this and not with what has been deemed traditional in the ungodly court systems of the world. Right now these ungodly court systems allow for divorce when God says to forgive and they marry homosexuals! What a disgrace.
The courts are in the business of punishing people for adultery because they love to make money, not because they care about the sin of adultery. But God is forgiving for the sin of adultery but it is much worse sin to put a child in a bad place by not having a rel father in his life. Studies have proven that a child who has to go through his parents divorcing suffers greatly, and a child who has to live in welfare or single mother homes is also suffering.
Q: My husband is abusive and I am thinking of getting a divorce?
A: If you are in a relationship and your spouse is physical or verbally abusive and prayer or intervention has not worked, then no, you are not allowed to get a divorce. But you can go through a separation where you move out and the church you attend is responsible for taking care of your needs and men in the church could be stand in fathers to help care for your children in the mean time. It is also important the husband goes through therapy that works along with serious prayer to get him the rehabilitation he needs. Quite possibly, generational curses or demonic possession could be causing it. Or maybe something genetic. But God doesn’t allow for divorce and remarriage. Only if a spouse dies is someone allowed to remarry.
Q: I am under 18 and my boyfriend got me pregnant and I don’t know how to tell my parents?
A: Firstly, this is a hard question to answer because I would need more information but in general, God is not judging you based on your age being “under 18″. Society has built laws around specific ages because it is too hard to operate a society working in God’s way of looking to each person’s heart and where they are at. That’s just something society can never do. So know that what matters most is what God thinks of you and that if you have a loving relationship with your boyfriend, you should be fine in His eyes. You must pray to God and ask Him to lead you what to say to your parents. Quite possibly maybe an older sibling or friend could help initiate a conversation for you and your parents.
Q: I am thinking of cheating. I don’t think my partner loves/understands me anymore.
A: Well of course I can understand how that feels. It feels incredibly frustrating to lose the connection to someone and when you can sense that your partner doesn’t even care, that is even worse. However, God does not condone cheating. There is a book that is really good. It is not the bible of course you don’t only have to go to the bible to learn about these things. It’s called Nonviolent communication. It’s about finding out what your needs are, and getting them communicated to someone in a compassionate way so that both people benefit. Most relationships really need this book because the reason relationships fail and the reason people cheat is because they are missing something and not getting their needs met. Order it here.